#364 - Goddess Indigo & Doctor Bob - Authors & Educators
The Goddess Indigo and Dr. Bob just came out with two new books - one on communication and one on creating magic in the dungeon. They both have long histories of being community educators at various conferences and dungeons internationally.
Safe, Sexy and Consensual: Creating Magic in the Dungeon. Robert J. (Dr.Bob) Rubel, PhD and The Goddess Indigo - For the first time ever, this book deconstructs a BDSM scene and rebuilds them component by component to explain why you do what you do in a scene—and how to do it intentionally and reliably to achieve extraordinary, consistent results. By the time you have learned to implement this material, your toys will have become extensions of your will. You will know how to speak the physical language (in addition to the verbal language) of connection. With practice and application, these skills will energize your play and elevate it from a mundane to a transcendent experience.We provide a recipe of sorts; a formula for reliably producing magical play scenes.
In One Ear and Out the Other: Essential guide for effective communication. Robert J. Rubel, PhD and Veronica M. Petterson - Do you listen to respond or listen to understand? Do you listen in neutral and then frame your response to match the situation? While many books are written about how to get your point across, good communication is about transmitting and receiving messages as close as possible to what the speaker intended to say. This extends beyond simplyunderstanding their spoken words. Understanding includes the ability tointerpret body language, vocal tone, and sentence inflection. It also includes understanding your own biases and the likely biases of the speaker. The roadmap to becoming an effective communicator lies within.
Links: Safe, Sexy and Consensual: Creating Magic in the Dungeon
In One Ear and Out the Other: Essential guide for effective communication
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